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(EMAILWIRE.COM, April 28, 2010 ) Milwaukee, WI - Dr. George Thompson, founder of Verbal Judo Institute, began with "Parents are sometimes shocked and distressed to get the phone call from another parent or school stating that their child has been bullying another child. They do not stop bullying because they fail to read the signs that indicate their child has been using aggressive language or behavior."
"Bullying behaviors can appear for many reasons, including but not limited to poor self-esteem, a trauma at home or school, lack of empathy or no outlet for aggression."
"Dr. Thompson outlined outlined the following behaviors that may forecast such outbursts:
• Misguided confidence or arrogance
• Poor treatment to siblings or pets
• Frequent name calling
• Failing grades
• A sudden withdrawal from normal activities, such as avoiding friends or being avoided by friends."
"Children may exhibit only one or all of these warning signs. Thompson said "the negative behaviors are better dealt with immediately than waiting for them to progress into bullying behavior."
"It is important to stay calm and guard against unwittingly reinforcing the harassing behaviors when dealing with your child who is acting the bully.
If you see your child exhibiting the behaviors such as name calling, excessive arrogance or treating his or her friends and siblings badly, use that as an opportunity to dig deeper into the problem."
"Ask questions and don’t stop asking until you are satisfied with the answers. Parents need to clearly state the behaviors that are wrong … and the consequences that will take place if those behaviors continue.”
Dr. Thompson also stated “Great damage is done to the victim, the bully and the bystander when harassment, verbal assault and bullying take place. “
The topic of bullying has been in the public eye recently because of the high profile suicide of a 15-year-old girl, Phoebe Prince, which was attributed to severe harassment. The state of Massachusetts, like many other states, is now considering putting into place tough anti-bullying laws.
The Verbal Judo Institute has recently launched a new program to teach children techniques and methods for warding off bullies. This program, Verbal Self Defense – Youth Program is designed to educate adults who teach children at school, in sports and extracurricular activities. It is credentialed through the Northeast Wisconsin Technical College. For details please see www.verbaldefensecourse.com.
The Verbal Judo Institute, founded by Dr. George Thompson in 1983, trains people in all walks of life on conflict resolution via the tactical use of words rather than force. Four books have been written on Verbal Judo and over 700,000 law enforcement professionals have been trained on its methods. Visit www.verbaljudo.com.
Manage Bullying is a forum that brings together a dynamic group of experts to offer insights and solutions on the subject of verbal abuse and harassment. This group strongly believes the same verbal tactics that keep police officers safe on the streets can be applied to the home, workplace and school. Members of the group advocate the communications technique called Tactical Communications/Verbal Judo (www.verbaljudo.com) and the Verbal Self Defense - Youth Program (www.verbaldefensecourse.com). Dr. George Thompson is the founder of the Verbal Judo Institute, and the author of four books on the subject. He can be reached at doc@verbaljudo.com.
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